Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy in MD, DC & MO
Reconnect to yourself. Reconnect to others.
You’ve got parts that drive, protect, and push to keep it all together.
Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy helps you get to know the parts of you beneath the perfectionism and pressure.
Have you ever caught yourself thinking, “Part of me knows I need to slow down and rest, but another part says I can’t afford to drop the ball”? Or maybe after sending a firm email, one part of you feels proud for standing your ground while another part worries you came across as too harsh or what the backlash might be.
That’s what Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy is all about—getting to know the different sides of yourself and why they react the way they do. Whether or not you’ve heard of IFS, this way of working can help you handle the demands of life—and your own high expectations—with more intention and less overwhelm.
Why IFS Clicked for Me—and How It Might for You Too
I first learned about Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy back in graduate school, and it instantly stood out. After being introduced to so many different approaches to therapy, this was the first one that really clicked for me. IFS made sense on both a professional and personal level. I was lucky to have a mentor who practiced IFS and encouraged me to explore it more deeply, and the more I learned, the more it felt like home.
I completed my IFS Level 1 training in 2023, which deepened my understanding of how powerful this model can be for people who spend much of their lives in leadership roles, managing others, or holding themselves to high standards. It helps make sense of the constant push and pull between parts that want to stay in control and parts that are exhausted from trying to do it all.
In my practice, I often blend IFS parts work with art therapy. You don’t have to be an artist to benefit from this. Sometimes using color, shape, or texture helps bring a part of you into focus when words don’t quite get there. It can make the process more tangible and easier to connect with, especially if you spend a lot of time in your head.
imagine if you…
Could quiet your inner critic and feel more self-compassionate.
Do you have an internal narrative that makes you question yourself and criticizes your decisions? IFS therapy can be a great way to understand where those thoughts come from and learn how to have a better relationship with your own inner voice.
Felt like you could manage your reactions, even in high stress settings.
IFS therapy can help you get space and perspective from intense emotions. I’ll help you learn tools for speaking for your emotions instead of from your emotions.
Spoke up for yourself in a way others could hear.
Whether you tend to stay silent when it comes to standing up for yourself, or you speak out and find yourself in heated conflicts, parts work can offer a new way of advocating for your needs.
If these qualities are what you’re seeking more of in your own life, IFS may be the support you’ve been looking for:
COMPASSION
CREATIVITY
CLARITY
CURIOSITY
CONNECTEDNESS
COURAGE
CONFIDENCE
CALMNESS
Still not sure IFS is for you?
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IFS VIDEO
This quick 6 minute video gives a great introduction to the basic concepts and framework of IFS.
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IFS PODCAST
Have an hour? Check out this podcast episode in which IFS founder, Dr. Dick Schwartz, does a session with Amanda, a lawyer and fellow high-achiever. It gives a great example of what to anticipate from an IFS session.
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IFS BOOK
“No Bad Parts” is the first book Dr. Dick Schwartz, the founder of IFS, wrote with the general public in mind. Give it a read, mark the parts that resonate with you, and it'll be a fantastic starting point if you decide IFS therapy is for you.
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